女性在婚姻生活中的地位与观念是日本社会的晴雨表。女性在婚姻中经历了古代的平等，到中世纪处于被支配地位，以及近代的追求互惠共存，体现了时代的传统与现代、保守与激进所交织的矛盾。本文以1945年分界点，目光聚焦于日本战前与战时传统的婚姻观念以及战后衰退与发展期，主要围绕着战败后制度、经济和思想方面产生的影响，关注女性婚姻观念的变化，分析动因的同时探究性别平等下的女性权力。

The status and beliefs of women in marriage are a barometer of Japanese society. Women have gone through ancient equality in marriage, being in a dominant position in the Middle Ages, and pursuing mutual benefit and coexistence in modern times, reflecting the contradictions intertwined between tradition and modernity, conservatism and radicalism of the times. This article focuses on the traditional marriage concepts of Japan before and during the war, as well as the decline and development period after the war. It mainly focuses on the impact of the system, economy, and ideology after the defeat, pays attention to the changes in women's marriage concepts, analyzes the reasons, and explores the power of women under gender equality.