本文以三一语法理论为理论基础，比较系统地考察了现代汉语“爱V不V”形式的形式构成、功能作用和典型情景。从“爱”的句法结构上来看，其句法结构多为表现主观放任的助动词，“V”多为动作、心理动词，“不V”与“爱V”成对，表达强硬，可作谓语、定语，也可衍生单纯或扩展式；其语义核心为“随心所欲”，表达不满、挑衅等情感，语用上具有调整对话、衔接语篇等功能，且情感强度随语境变化而变化。从情景上看，它表现为“无奈”、“社会尊重”、“消费场景”、“职场强势”和“网络社会”。本文将基于1200余条语料，采用质性和实证研究的方法，深入挖掘隐含的规律，并提出有针对性的中文语言学习策略，以帮助学习者突破语义语用瓶颈。

Based on the SanYi Grammar theory, this paper systematically examines the formal composition, functional roles, and typical scenarios of the "ai V bu V" structure in modern Chinese. From the perspective of the syntactic structure of "ai" (love), it mostly functions as an auxiliary verb expressing subjective permissiveness; "V" (verb) is mainly an action or psychological verb; "bu V" (not V) forms a pair with "ai V" (love V), conveying a strong tone. This structure can serve as a predicate or attribute, and can also be derived into simple or extended forms. Its core semantic meaning is "to do as one wishes," expressing emotions such as dissatisfaction and provocation. Pragmatically, it functions to adjust conversations and connect discourses, with its emotional intensity varying according to context. In terms of scenarios, it is manifested in "helplessness," "social respect," "consumption scenarios," "workplace dominance," and "online society." Based on over 1,200 pieces of corpus data, this paper adopts qualitative and empirical research methods to deeply explore the underlying rules and propose targeted Chinese language learning strategies, aiming to help learners break through the bottlenecks in semantics and pragmatics.